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Since logging off, my dad has reverted to his tried-and-true method: meeting women at bars. "That's how I met your mother," he notes. (Years ago, he told me that he met mom pumping her gas; he's since dropped that sanitized version of this story. .
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I've been giving the online dating scene a whirl (in the spirit of disclosure -- I met with my last significant other online, so this isn't my first experience with dating sites). And it occurred to my constantly working and somewhat convoluted mind, that Twitter and internet dating are not dissimilar.
The reason this is so frustrating is that you can't take this mentality as a guy -- you're the one expected to make it "just happen", and if you're trying to figure it out 's even worse, as what they say they're doing is the exact opposite of what they're really doing, since they're telling themselves that they're not doing what they're doing.
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Examples? There was a few dance to a band. I went up to the man and asked about the group (had no intention of hitting anyone). The woman (smoking hot) started talking to me and IMMEDIATELY said "oh by the way, we are just work colleagues" and was all over me the rest of the evening. I mean, that's a bit disrespectful to the guy, to only say that (if he was interested). But I've never had a hot woman dump this kind of obvious IOI like that immediately. Usually it's the reverse (get out the "I have a boyfriend" immediately ).
We hypothesized as we whittled further as to how many of these guys would have a wicked sense of humor or type eyes, which of these would laugh at my poorly constructed puns, tolerate my nocturnal teeth-grinding, watch chick flicks with me, not judge when I ate an entire package of Trader Joe's dark chocolate peanut butter cups in one sitting, and could stomach my off-key singing in the car.
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The near future will also be mobile, as smartphones become ubiquitous. An app called Badoo (mostly popular in Europe and Latin America) uses GPS tracking to organize dates on Hook Up Sluts Monroe Wisconsin the fly--with little more than a photograph from users. In 2012, Badoo boasted 35 million consumers. And industry leaders eHarmony, Match and OkCupid have all released new mobile applications.
